Digital Media Converter cannot remove the audio from a video file. In Digital Media Converter Pro, to create silent video files click Tools >> Effects >> Change Volume Level, and change the volume level to 0.
We have published an article on creating smaller files, which you can read here:
http://www.deskshare.com/resources/articles/dmcpro_ReduceFileSize.aspxWMV and MP4 formats can both produce very small files, but the size depends on the settings you select.
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